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Shoot....or....Dribble?.....

So are you a shooter when you cum?

Or a dribbler?

Me - I am a VERY jealous dribbler..... I can count on one hand the amount of times I have had shot. Even back when I was buff and with abs of steel................ dribble.........

**sigh**

So complete the poll on the side for me and we'll see how you guys fare?

AND..........

The largest number of votes will get a So Hot Saturday post dedicated to it :)

Shalom All

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Who's Your Celebrity Orgy?.....

Here's what you do and I WANT you bloggers to do this :)

You pick *5* celebs/actors et al that you would choose to be in your orgy. Post two pics of each and say why you would include them.

Here's mine - in no particular order........

Ryan Gosling - just look at the pics. And he'd snuggle after.....

Chris Hemsworth - POWER TOP !!!!!

Robert Downey Jnr - I have it from very reliable "industry" sources that when single RDJ is up for just about anything with anyone...... Perfect for an orgy.....WAS NOT hot for him in his younger days but NOW.... woof......

Ben Affleck - POWER BOTTOM - oh come on......... you don't spend all those years being PEGGED by J-LO without learning to be a good bitch (she was TOTALLY the alpha male in the Beniffer relationship)

Robbie Williams - coz he would be an energiser bunny that just would not stop whether on the bott or top - AND - he'd bring the kink to the party :)

OK my 2 Centers - get posting in the comments and/or blogging on your blog - please source the original link here - and if I get enough in the comments I'll do a megapost for the ORGY of ALL Celebrity Orgies :)

Shalom

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Your Fave Sex-tivity.........

What is YOUR favourite Sex-tivity?? (Activity of Sex for those who don't get it)

Now - no fence sitting on this one (snicker) - you have to pick ONE...........

Now I agree I am a kind of "loving it from that first kiss and grope right through to that point where you're laying there concerned you're having a heart attack / panting / sweaty / covered in various fluidic substances".......

HOWEVER....

My fave would have to be giving oral. Cock sucking. Giving Head. Blowing the Bone. Going Down. Worshiping on the Knee. Eating Tubesteak.

I don't usually snap their neck at the end tho :)

I luvs me a good piece of meat in my mouth whether its a well done T-Bone or a dude named T with a bone that I do well. It was the VERY first thing I ever did - even before kissing - and it is still my fave thing to do.

I particularly like starting with the dick soft.... feeling it grow.... worshiping EVERY bit of the thing (head, skin-if there, balls, perineum, shaft) until that loverly creamy, low fat, protein rich conclusion.

OK - the poll's on the side... get to voting and you can only choose ONE !!

Ready...........

Set.....................

GO GO GO GO GO GO GO !!!!!!!!!!......................

Shalom

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PS Of course you can also contribute through the comments :)

**UPDATE Bloggers Poll doesn't seem to be working right now - post your answer in the comments section till it's fixed.... Sorry Guys..... If anyone can assist please let me know how**

The Politics of Penis........

When I came out in 1990 (dragged out of the closet by my two closest friends at the time actually) there was no personal internet - no iPhones.... you got lucky by going to either a Beat (public sex environment / cruise area) - or a Gay Nightclub....

Needless to say - I knew where I stood in BOTH of these situations..... stood.... knelt..... laid back.... on all fours....... squatted....... bent......bowed............ sat.......... somersaulted (ill tell you about that one some day) ......you get the idea. There was a smile. A nod. Sometimes a wink. Often a blatantly suggestive crotch grab (me - guilty) and then it was on like two pigs fighting under a blanket - I heart those days.

NOW - O...........M.......... G........... Becky....... It.........Is ..........So..........Hard............... and not in the way I like.

There are SOOOOOOOOO many things you have to have to get some dick.

Some of them include but are not limited to......

Foreskin
No Foreskin
Bubble Butt
Nice Smile
All Your Teeth (Very important in the American South I hear)
A perfectly firm and full pair of Pecs
Smooth
Hairy
Daddy-ness
Boy-ness
Bear-ness (surprisingly common)
If an open relationship - one partner at LEAST must be Uber hot and be the top
Be total top
Be total Bottom
Be vers
Be prepared to BB (far more common than one thinks)
Be Just Around The Corner (this one seems to be a deal breaker)
Have At Least One Kink In Common
Have a Type Of Music You Like to Fuck To In Common
You Must Be Masculine..... Not Butch.... (wtf ?!?!!?)
And ........... the most important of all.......... be under 40.

Seriously - I've followed French Cordon Bleu recipes that were easier than this!!

Also - apparently you have to be either prepared to talk for many weeks before meeting - or - be an action hero on speed dial with the only conversation being "Oh yeah fuck that ass!!"

Too much for this old fat 40 yr old bear...... I'm going back to French cooking - at least if that doesn't work out all I have at the end is something that looks bad but is still good to eat.......

Shalom

Damien
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......2 Pubes.....How Do You "'Scape"?.......

.........How do you manscape and what is your preference?.... Me - I give mine a trim once a month... Nothing too short - but definitely not "vegan-lesbian-armpit-braid" type bush..... just keep it neat and tidy. Like my lawn.

The Full Bush....

Now interestingly I can appreciate the Full Bush aesthetically. Very masculine. Rugged. Somewhat Cro-Magnon - and for me that has a real appeal.... However, when it comes "down" to it, I already have a lovely brand of dental floss at home and do not need anymore thank you.

****altho I have to say this is a full bush with appeal - but it's a package thing that would still involve flossing****

The Light Trim

This is my # 1 preference for a combination of aesthetics and function. No flossing. Still Manly. Noice.

****Nicely trimmed - even Serial Killer Couples clearly appreciate a nice man-land****

The Designer Trim

O............M........... G.......... unless you're a Stripper - or a Porn Star with a big bucks contract - wtf??? This is the male equivalent of vajazzling and enough said about that the better.... Not my cup of tea.

The Shave

This to me looks wrong on so many levels. You're trying to recapture your prepubescence?? You're secretly wanting to look like a woman?? Whats up with this? Is it your idea of a first line offense against crabs? I don't get it. And yet I posted a pic with a HOTTIE who had shaved his so.... I don't know. I am on the fence on this one....

..........Now I like the above pic only coz it's a HOT package and he's hung - but it still doesn't look right to me...........

....Again.... hot package..... but there SHOULD be hair there...... IMHO...

What are your thoughts?

Choose in the poll on the side.

Shalom

....2 Gay... It's All Sex Sex Sex With You Gays!!.......

....Another comment from a heterosexual female.....

Now - Ladies - I am NOT making a misogynistic comment - I am simply sourcing the comment..

However, it does beg two questions....

(1) Why are gay men all about sex? (and we are - most of the time - let's admit it)
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(2) Why are str8 women (in general) so prissy about sex?

(1).............

I was chatting with someone one day - I think it was a str8 male friend of mine back when I was studying ballet - who asked me if gay guys had more sex that str8 guys..... When I stopped laughing (yes I actually did) we got into a detailed discussion about (again in general) the coming out process and the subsequent experimentation that occurs. I noted that once you had gone through all of that the actual act of sex becomes almost a non-event..

Now - I am not cheapening the act of sex - what I am doing is pointing out how serious the event of sexuality emergence is compared to simply hooking up. PLUS - there is the other issue of hetero-normative importance - namely guilt - placed on sex.

Even today - in a culture saturated with sex and an overtly sexualised media - there is still a significant level of SHAME placed on sex and how and when it takes place. Children caught experimenting are punished - rather than educated. Teenagers who are dating have rules and boundaries placed on them - rather than parents or guardians sitting down and discussing the responsibilities and respect that relationships ( especially sexual relationships ) entail.

Now - when a gay / bisexual man gets to a point where he is cognisant of his identity - at peace with it - and exploring it - sex is easy. Relationships are still difficult - but the act of sex is an easy one. Plus us Men have one thing that women don't have .................. evolutionary hook-up genes.

I'm not joking. If you look at the evolution of man - placed in the context of a natural world - Man is a hunter and seeder. And I ain't taking corn and cabbage here. Males of the species have been designed by evolution to spread their genes as broadly as possible. Now, whilst gay men can't breed with each other (beyond the BB terminology) we still possess the drive. That's why I made the remark that women have a reproductive drive of 28 days whilst men have a reproductive drive of 28 milliseconds.

So - basically it's a long winded story - but evolution gave men testicles that DO NOT STOP producing sperm or hormones - and that makes us horny - most, if not all, of the time.

Now............. str8 women............... evolution made you people the Nurturer / Care-Takers.. and I personally think you got the rough end of the stick to be honest. Most women I have talked about this with - especially back in my sexual health days - had noted that their sex drive does wax and wane *generally* on a monthly cycle. Not that this is always the case. I have known some women whose sex drive makes a gay man look like a monk.

However, the most puzzling thing to ME is the generic attitude women *appear* to have towards sex. That is to be used as reward or punishment. Now - don't go Fatal Attraction on me here - because I'm talking from the standpoint of someone who has sat with groups of women who agree with this. And its the number one complaint of str8 men - that sex has to be earned....

Are you kidding me Ladies ?!?!?!? Really ?!?!?!?

And I have to ask - seriously I might add - if this is true, why the hell would women do this? What's the point of consciously doing something that is going to foster resentment and the potential of affairs? I understand that not everyone is in the mood all the time - but are women really so absent of desire? Or is it really just the politics of hetero-normative sex. If so..... then I have to say that str8 men AND women are getting screwed....... or....... not.... which is quite possibly part of the problem with how so many str8 relationships break down.

So again - for two posts in a row - a stream of consciousness that didn't necessarily lead anywhere - and that came from off the cuff remarks - but I'm keen to hear your reactions and POV's to this.....

Shalom and Blessings for you all

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....2 Know.......Simon The Sex Worker On Testing....

.....well 2 Centers - Simon is popping in for a quickie Q&A... he was intrigued by my recent bareback poll and wants to add his own 2 Cents re Testing......

(2CW) Hey Simon. Welcome back and thank you for doing this.

All good. It's a topic close to my heart and genitalia after all ;)

(2CW) Now you have left sex work I understand? Can we do a more in depth profile on that another time?

Absolutely! Happy to :)

(2CW) Thanks. Now. Firstly, tell us about your testing regime.

OK - as a professional in the adult sex industry, I get tested for EVERYTHING monthly. This is the law in the State of Victoria. I get a full bloods and swabs test. This includes;

HIV
All blood borne STI's (sexually transmitted infections) including Syphillis
Penile, Oral and Anal swabs or Gonorrhea, Herpes, Chlamydia and Warts
A pee in the cup to see if there is urinary infection
And a full "look over" my cock, arse and throat for physical symptoms of anything
I also get my Doctor to feel my balls for lumps and bumps - this is a testicular cancer first step test that *I* think everyone should get.

(2CW) OK - I have to say that is quite the battery of testing. Now how about pre-industry? How did you get tested then?

Before my work in the sex industry I was pretty clueless and all I did was HIV and Hep A & B vaccinations. I didn't get any of the other tests done coz I thought I was a hot guy who couldn't catch anything coz I only fucked hot guys. Looking back I see that was TOTAL bullshit. *I* think that it's the hot guys (hot douches actually) you have to worry about coz their arrogance keeps them ignorant. AND it puts you at risk.

(2CW) Have you ever caught an STI?

Yes. I've had crabs a bunch of times. But they're just inconvenient. I have had NSU (Non Specific Urethritis) twice, Chlamydia once, Penile Gonorrhea once, Penile Warts once, and a throat infection that was diagnosed as sexually related but came back negative on tests.

(2CW) Did you freak out?

The only thing I freaked out about was the wart - that's coz warts can increase your chance of testicular cancer.

(2CW) Now you're not in the sex industry any more, is your testing regimen going to change?

Yeah. It'll now be quarterly. Still the same battery of tests. But every three months.

(2CW) Your advice to anyone reading this?

Get tested. Get tested often. Know your body. You can never be paranoid about your health. Any weird colouration, lump or bump or ooze - get it checked.

(2CW) Thanks for dropping by mate and we'll talk again soon re your exit from the Industry :)

Shall do - take care all. Peace.

.............There you go - straight from the professionals mouth.....

....thoughts?....

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